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Sunday, September 25, 2011

Friend Beyond Life


It was my first day in college. There was an utmost anxiousness, out bounded curiosity, a loud silence within me about how it will be the life in the college, how will be the new colleagues, lecturers. There were so many questions pouring in my unsettled mind.

At the second day of my college, I met someone in the class, a bit serious, somewhat taller,from me, slightly dark but with a good heart and mind.  - Mukesh Kumar Singh. This was his very first impression. We were the first comers on that day. No one else still arrived at that time. So we introduced each other. After that we started to sit together and our friendship grew. The true test of our friendship came in a very short time. I still remember one incident in my first year where he showed me the real meaning of friendship the very first time.

            Once the back benchers were harassing the senior professor without having any kind of sense and limit and it went beyond the toleration power of that gentleman. The professor lost his mind and went to principal. Principal came like a rainstorm and fired all the students of the class, and then he asked to the professor who those fellows were harassing him. He particularly mentioned all the management batch students, so the principal immediately ordered to stand up all that batch’s students. I was one of that batch students’ but not in that group of friends. Unfortunately or may be fortunately (why fortunately, you’ll get to know soon), Professor pointed to me and said he is one of those fellows who is constantly does mischief in the class. I was literally shocked and was taken aback by his reaction as I was one of the quietest boys in the class, or you can say the most in the whole college. Even the class was amazed by the reaction of the professor. Without any cross checking the stats, the principal grab my collar and drag me out of the class. It was really shocking and embarrassing to me. Principal threatened me and other two classmates that he’ll rusticate and give up our LCs. I was getting more and more anxious. After pleading the principal he came up with me in the class.

The first person to protest and stand by me in my favor was Mukesh. I still remember he literally stood up and said audaciously to the principal that I haven’t done anything. If I were at his place I should have thought first and little bit hesitated that what would happen after this, but he stood up for me courageously, without any mind of hesitation for how the consequences will come. After him whole row started to protest that I wasn’t involved in any kind of activity that would harm any of the faculty members. Principal agreed with the wholesome protest. At that point of time, I was moved and I saw my first real friend who does what he says, who did what he said. This was real fortune for me.

I have seen many of the friends who are just pretentious and there’s always something fishy running in their minds. But this was a big show turner and an incident that would never be forgotten. 
आपत्सु स्नेहसंयुक्तं मित्रम् !
The meaning that- in the harsh times, only REAL friends come to rescue...He’s the person who gave me my life which was boring, useless, unexciting and unreal, taught me how to live life with liveliness, and always guided me where I was completely lost. I can say he knows me well better than myself.

             Now when I retrospect, there were some who used me, there were some who took me for granted, there were some for whom I was just a Timepass material and also some who were not my friends at all but pretending to be so. Contrary to this, those who were real ones, who mattered the most are still with me.
 
             This post is not for showing the world how intense, trustworthy and meaningful friendship we both share but for sharing this unbreakable relationship and its mystical strength that our friendship possesses and for the things I haven’t able to tell him. And may be to show the epitome of friendship for the future generation to come… you truly are the friend beyond life..